wish man

The wise man does not choose the situation that according to him, but he tends to adapt themselves to the situation.

Actually, there is no profitable situation and there are no adverse situation. Gains / losses are the result of setting of a situation. The advantage would come if situation is set properly. While the losses were incurred because the situation is not regulated properly.

No one can choose the destiny and situation in it. A person can only do their best to change that destiny of his limits.

Muhammad Aji Setiawan

Establish communications to create a harmonious family

In the household, the harmony becomes a very important aspect for the development and advancement of its members live. A harmonious family will produce quality family member. While with the reverse proof, the facts show that juvenile delinquency came from broken-home.

Disharmony that often occurs because of a misunderstanding in the family. And misunderstandings in the family caused by the lack of communication between family members.
 
From the explanation in the preceding paragraph, establish good communication is essential to create a harmonious family.  

Some things you can do to bring harmony in the household are:
 
1. provide time to gather with family
You should spend some time at least 50-30 minutes to gather with other family members.  
This activity can be used to:
 
a. sharing stories about the activities of each family member during the day.  
b. to solve family problems together.  
c. To talk about things lightly or just joking together.
 
2. getting used to express / say your wishes to another family member  
If its needed, each family member can write down a list of desires ( short-term desires and long-term desire) to make understand each other desire.

3. pour your heart's content on other family members to share  
pour your heart's content on other family members to share about happiness or to reduce the burden if there is a problem. Usually the mother is a good listener for the members of his family. That is why the mother play an important role in this regard.
 
Let's talk!
Create harmony in your family always!
Muhammad Aji Setiawan

The difference between love and affection

The difference between love and affection

Love is much closer to the passion and lust
Affection is closer to the heart

The best job

The best activity is not to waste time. You can do any job, you can do everything provided it does not idle. Basically, all activity is an occupation. And the best job is to do an activity that is usefull, both for yourself and / or for others.

There is not a job that is claimed to be the best job. Everything is relative, depending on the situation and condition of the subject do the work. In fact, farmers may be the best job for providing basic needs for food as the surrounding community.

This life is a system. And each work is an activity which affects the activity / job to another. An example, without people’s is not the job of a leader is meaningless.

Each work is mutually supportive and complementary. As an example, the executive work connected with the legislature, as well as the judiciary.

So whatever your job, do it with the best. Do not feel humiliated even if you only do lowly job, because it is also an activity that is useful, provided you are not wasting time.

Keep the spirit and keep fighting.
A great start from the very small.
Muhammad Aji Setiwan

batik

Understanding of batik
Batik painting is drawn on cloth with wax and dye materials.
 
Tools for making batik
Initially, the tool used to make batik is canting. However, now canting has been rarely used.

In subsequent developments, batik is made using the stamp. This method is intended to accelerate the process of making batik. And the most modern today is to use a machine with printing techniques. This method is used by companies as an effort to maximize the benefits of mass production. But this method can not be called ‘mbatik’ and the products is not batik, but only a batik fabrics.

But of the three ways above, which is used batik using canting have the best quality.

The city of batik in Indonesia
Batik is an international cultural heritage originated from Indonesia. Pekalongan is batik city. But for society, Jogjakarta and Solo is  known as a batik industrial center. There are many producing regions such as batik in Indonesia, Indramayu, Gorontalo, several reigon in Bali, and some areas in West Java and Central Java.

The use of batik
Batik cloth was used as the base material of Javanese people clothes /‘kebaya’, table cloth, bed cover, "gloves" and "shawl". In an effort to promote and introduce batik to international people, batik is now used as a basic ingredient in all things fashion. Batik is used as the base material of shoes, beautiful sandals, bags, wedding dress, shirts, hats, ties, blouses, etc.

 
Two of the most famous batik(motif)

Lereng panjang motif

from http://batikindonesia.com/batik/batik-cap-lereng-panjang-marun/?ap_id

Megamendung (motif)

from http://batikindonesia.com/batik/syal-batik-tulis-megamendung-mysterious-purple/?ap_id

love

sometimes, love can make us feel safe, but he was not able to save us from the death

every human being is important

everyone has ever felt down, lost, feeling stupid, ignored, humiliated, maybe even insulted. sometimes it makes us feel useless.

but there are important things you should remember. "every human being is important."

(introduction to the point)
God who created this life. He has big plans with this life and He planned everything till the smallest things.

(why every human being is important?)
you are part of this life. so you are part of gods plan. however you are already a part of this living system. you have become part of a system of gods plan. and if you do not exist, your absence will result was great damage to the system of life.
 
(conclusion)
so no matter how small you feel, you still have a huge influence on this life, to the great plan of God (which is still secret).

you should know that "God never created anything in vain", as well as our presence.

you are someone important.

keep the spirit and confidence!
muhammad aji setiawan

how to make your house always looks clean

There are several ways you can do to make house always look clean, as below:

1. sweep (with broom) home regularly.

This should be done twice a day during morning and afternoon. maybe for those of you who have domestic help, this is not a problem. but for a single parent is not easy, especially if the house is big enough. if you have trouble doing it twice, you can do it only in the morning.

2. return all objects & furniture in the original place.

equipment and furniture after use, immediately on return to the place. this is very important to avoid the impression of clutter in your home.

3. swab your furniture

wipe your furniture with a damp cloth if it looks dirty. for those of you who are busy, take a preformance once a week to do it.

actually there are still other ways, but all three of the above is the key.
so, good luck to you house lovers!

make your home be a haven!
muammad aji setiawan.